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Tsuki Yin

13:20 Mar 16 2012
Times Read: 544


I adopted a kitty yesterday and will be getting her today. She is approximately nine months old, and mostly black with quite a bit of white. I named her Tsuki and Teine wanted yin yang. Since she was mostly black fur though we called her Yin. First name is Japanese for "moon"...so... Dark Moon is how it resulted which is cute. I will be posting pics....



Ah and before i forget i plan on making R'asha high and letting her play with a live lobster (rubber bands still on).


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Bellanova333
Bellanova333
15:19 Mar 16 2012

awwww (=





 

Contraception

16:44 Mar 03 2012
Times Read: 562


Okay... I get that people cannot with insurance get their birth control. I get that the Republicans do not want the government to pay for it. Yes, putting condoms in a vending machine in schools may give more kids the idea to have sex. However.... think on this.

I have a few points to make for both sides.



-You can get generic, basic contraception in Walmart and in the Planned Parenthood Centers it may or may not cost anything, or about $5 depending, so you don't need all those expensive ones some seem to buy. If you do not have a Planned Parenthood, You can get the prescription by your doc anyway, and Walmart would have the generic pills around $5 (supposedly, this is what I heard).



-NOT ALL PEOPLE WHO WANT CONTRACEPTION ARE FUCKING SLUTS! I know many women who take it to regulate their monthly periods (I was one of them) so I would not bleed out, or because monthly periods were very, very painful, some women were bedridden (also one of them). Some people have it for other medical reasons such as:

-they do not want to get rid of their ovaries because of growing cysts, which could have been helped through the contraception, but her insurance couldn't pay for it, and she didn't have the money, as a college student.

-Some people could be addicts of sex, in which case, they cannot help that they NEED sex. Are they sluts because of this? No. Medically, because they are unable to stop such things, then, no.



-Do I think we should pay it through heightened taxes?

-Do I think that the hospitals religion-ran should dispense the contraception against their religious rights?

The answer to those are 'no'.



Here is something I would wish happen, but ideally wont.



I think healthcare should be free to everyone. I think everyone deserves to try to live a healthy life, whether they are rich or not.

By healthcare I mean the general doctor exams, and I believe everyone should be able to see the dentist once a year free. If they are referred to a specialist by their doc, then I believe they should be able to go to that person without gaining financial problems.

I think this could be done through an insurance that should be affordable to most. Those who cannot afford it, should be able to get certain vouchers.

HOWEVER, I believe to help prevent scamming, that they are made to show their ID, SS card, Birth Certificate. In addition, their appearance should be taken note of, a picture taken of their profile as well as taking note of their height and fingerprints.







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Clashing D/s

15:56 Mar 02 2012
Times Read: 569


I was raised to be domestically submissive. Around when I was sixteen, I had found BDSM, and found it didn't have to be just domestic submission. I fell in love with many types then, and learned many things through people. I always wanted to learn and see more. However, I moved from people to people so often... *sighs*



-My first fiance was too submissive. He wanted to be dominant, but either you are or you are not. At one point I considered him my submissive, but we didn't get far as I married a man who didn't want a male submissive.

-My second fiance of two and a half years was so insecure in both himself and our relationship (it was long distance) that we broke it off. He accused me of cheating, only, he came back two days later with a new girlfriend.

-My ex-Domme was kind, and sadistic, and I loved her for it, but we had our problems back then and she fell in love with a man, so I fell back in the shadows and moved on. She introduced me to my third fiance.

-The couple I lived with... I grew to love them, in my own way, however, they were unsure of what they wanted other than a girl to do whatever they wanted without thought (even though they claimed they wanted someone with opinion or a mind). Any time I mentioned something they either said I was stupid or I was punished.

-My third fiance and now husband was dominant when my ex domme introduced him. However that is not the case anymore and now I am stuck with only myself in the D/s situation, yet I cannot go to anyone else for this void that is left. I can't just abandon it.

I cannot abandon it because it is a part of who I am. However, it will never be satisfied, I found out the hard way. I am quite annoyed at this fact. *sighs* I am not going to submit to a man who does not wish to Dominate me. Instead he's in the middle. and while he claims he is trying to fix it he willingly wishes to avoid any opportunities to fix it.

Like, tonight is a fund raiser to be able to go to this seminar. He doesn't want to go tonight because the seminar 'not his thing'. Yet, he gets to go to his tai chi seminar. Lets see... fund raiser = $60 for BOTH of us... his seminar? $200+ for HIM. Yet he wont do this for me. I understand how important tai chi is for him, but gods damn it all...

so does this sound like trying? No. Not at all.

And even though he doesn't wish to try to be Dominant, he still expects me to submit to it like a puppy. Well, I'm not a puppy I am a fucking cat. *growls*

So, yes, until I figure out what the hell I am going to do with myself.... I'm in this limbo....

And now my life hates me so. *shrugs*

I am not going to stay in it either.


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Icebound
Icebound
16:05 Mar 02 2012

I feel your pain and frustration.








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